Chris Meistre

Ask a random person in the street if they are happy with their life and chances are you will hear a tone of hesitation before you hear a “yes”. Sometimes, you will also hear a person say that “I would be happy if I had this, or if I was there”. People in general equate happiness with an object or a desire. But what is happiness exactly?

Happiness is in fact not an object or the fulfillment of a dream. Happiness is a state of being, a nature of a person once he begins to identify with himself and the world more. And true happiness can actually be equated with being faithful to who you really are. Once you are aware of who you are, what it is you enjoy and love, or your what your inspiration is, you naturally become happier. But once you lose your identity, that’s when you start searching for happiness.

Happiness starts with a positive outlook on life. If you consider yourself as one of those people who are in search for their lost happiness, then here are a couple of tips on how to live happier life.

Relationships are at the very core of happiness; this however does not apply to intimate relationships only. Relationships here means to connect with the people in your life. There are several people who get caught up chasing after their dreams, leaving behind the people they care for. Reconnect with these people and fix any broken ties, sooner or later you’ll be surrounding yourself with nothing but love and thus become a happier person.

Next move is to check your whole outlook on life as well as your goals. If you are stuck doing something that you’re not passionate about, chances are that it’s the thing that’s hindering you from finding your true happiness. It has been said that one of the biggest mistake that a person can make is by doing something they do not love. Sometimes, your attitude and your outlook in your work and life can also affect your happiness. If you find yourself always whining and complaining about your life or your work, then a simple change in attitude might do the trick. If you start telling yourself that you love your life or your job, then the good vibes will eventually help to make you a happier person. Once you begin to appreciate the little things you have in your life, it will be easier for you to start loving your life.

There are also some people who forgot how it was being happy after a tragic incident or after they have been terribly hurt. The more you hold on to grudges, the less likely you will ever experience being truly happy. True happiness entails letting go of the things that hurts you or the things that have hurt you. You need to forgive the people who have disappointed you and instead try to live your life to the fullest. Let go of the past so that you can start living your present. You should never deprive yourself from having fun; enjoy a little spontaneity once in a while and just be grateful for your life.

Aside from correcting your goals, outlook, and attitude in life, it is also important that you take care of yourself more and get back in touch with your inner self. People might not necessarily notice it, but a person who lives a healthy life tends to be happier than those who do not.

Once you start taking care of yourself and stop neglecting your needs, happiness will eventually follow. It may also help to get in touch with your spiritual self. People who are committed to following a spiritual path are bursting with happiness in their hearts. A few minutes of spiritual practice, whether in the form of prayer, meditation, yoga, or the like, will help you live a happier and more peaceful life.
All in all, happiness is a person’s choice. If you continuously tell yourself that you are not happy, then you will never be happy. If you continue to dwell on what you don’t have instead of being grateful for what you have, then you will never be happy. True happiness is not something that we achieve; it comes once we learn to accept ourselves and the life we live.

Here’s a list of 10 commandments we should obey while having the privilege of being guests on Earth. Read through them and count just how many we are breaking!

1. Thou shalt love and honor the Earth for it blesses thy life and governs thy survival.
2. Thou shalt keep each day sacred to the Earth and celebrate the turning of its seasons.
3. Thou shalt not hold thyself above other living things nor drive them to extinction.
4. Thou shalt give thanks for thy food, to the creatures and plants that nourish thee.
5. Thou shalt educate thy offspring for multitudes of people are a blessing unto the Earth when we live in harmony.
6. Thou shall not kill, nor waste Earth’s riches upon weapons of war.
7. Thou shalt not pursue profit at the Earth’s expense but strive to restore its damaged majesty.
8. Thou shalt not hide from thyself or others the consequences of thy actions upon the Earth.
9. Thou shalt not steal from future generations by impoverishing or poisoning the Earth.
10. Thou shalt consume material goods in moderation so all may share the Earth’s bounty.

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I just heard about this term “Cone of Learning” for the first time. I’ve read before of the ways we try and remember things, but this is a very nice representation of how effective the different methods work.

It basically states that after 2 weeks, we remember:

• 10% of what we READ
• 20% of what we HEAR
• 30% of what we SEE
• 50% of what we SEE & HEAR
• 70% of what we SAY
• 90% of what we SAY & DO

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The ultimate symbol for cosmic energy (Chi) is said to be the ancient Chinese Dragons.  It is the most powerful symbol of good luck and fortune in the Chinese culture. The Dragon is also one of the four creatures that guards the directions of the compass (or directory of the world).  The Chinese Dragons guard the East side.  They are also associated with Spring and this is said to be symbolic of new beginnings.  They also have the power to provide water to dry lands, which is symbolic to abundance and relief.

The Chinese Dragons have an arsenal of good qualities: success, high achievement and prosperity.  This makes them one of the most popular and powerful of the Asian symbols.

There is a piece of land that overlooks Hong Kong.  This land is called the Kowloon, which translated means The Nine Dragons.  According to a legend, it was named by a Chinese Emperor who fled there after the Sung Dynasty.  At first he named it after the eight hills that were located on the land, but after his servant observed that the emperor should also be counted among the important figures it was changed to Nine Dragons.

The Nine Dragons:

P’u-loa:
He acts as an alarm whenever danger is near and provides protection against it.

Ch’iu-niu:
This dragon is creates Yang energy by using ancient dragon music.

Pi-his:
He provides knowledge and luck.  This dragon also makes sure that continuing education can take place.

Pa-hsia:
Pa-hsia is a provider of support whenever you need it, and will be your strength in trying times.

Chao-feng:
Guards holy places and sacred lands.  This also includes holy temples.

Chih wen:
Signifies the power that water has over fire.

Suan-ni:
He is the protector against theft and betrayal.

Yai-tzu:
Protects against any physical harm that may come your way.

Pi-kau:
The main objective of this dragon is to defend you against lies and false accusations.